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An animated series about dating & friendship
Three dots.
A whole drama.
Lina has a draft. Sophie has an opinion.
And the phone? Still on the sofa.
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Big feelings. Small misunderstandings.
Very little sofa space.
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01 / Episodes
One episode.
Then one more.
Dating, friendship and the moments in between.
The latest episode · 03
Texting
One message. Two opinions. And a lot of time to overthink it.
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02 / Cast
Some people get you.
Sophie gets involved.
The people behind the unread messages.
Sophie
A raised eyebrow is an answer.
Curious, outspoken, dryly funny. Sophie has her own take on things. And she’s going to tell Lina.
“Lina! The app! You promised me.”
Lina
Heart first. Then a second draft.
Dreamy, a little panicked, and usually the first to laugh at herself. Thoughts and feelings rarely arrive together.
“I’ve downloaded it…”
Jonas
Some things can wait.
“We’ll share more when the story gets there.”A note from the series
03 / Shop
For the date.
And the nerves before it.
A little of the series, on real paper. Print it. Make it yours.
10First-date planner
4,90 €Planned price
A place, a time, a plan B. Ten illustrated pages with chat bubbles for your own thoughts.
EN + DE · Colour + printer-friendly · A4 + US Letter
Digital PDFs. No physical product.
2424 conversation cards
6,90 €Planned price
24 questions, 24 illustrated backs. Pick a card. Skip a question. Go at your pace.
EN + DE · Colour + printer-friendly · A4 + US Letter
Also includes individual cards with 3 mm bleed.
Digital PDFs. No physical product.
First-date planner + 24 conversation cards
The date set
Planner + all 24 cards. For a little less planning and a little more talking.
EN + DE · Colour + printer-friendly · A4 + US Letter
9,90 €Planned price
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Free PDF ↓- Germany DE
- 112 Medical / 110 PoliceOfficial source ↗
- Austria AT
- 144 Medical / 133 Police / 112 European emergencyOfficial source 1 ↗ · Official source 2 ↗
- Switzerland CH
- 144 Medical / 117 PoliceOfficial source ↗
- United States US
- 911 EmergencyOfficial source ↗
- United Kingdom UK
- 999 EmergencyOfficial source ↗
- Spain ES
- 112 EmergencyOfficial source 1 ↗ · Official source 2 ↗
- Portugal PT
- 112 EmergencyOfficial source ↗
- Brazil BR
- 192 SAMU / 190 PoliceOfficial source 1 ↗ · Official source 2 ↗
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026
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GermanyDE · Support contacts
- Who it is for
- People in difficult life situations
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- German
- Cost
- Free
All genders. If busy, try again; in immediate danger call emergency services.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- Women experiencing violence and people supporting them
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- Multilingual counselling via the provider
- Cost
- Free
Within Germany only. Also for psychological abuse. Calls can leave traces on a device.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- Men who have experienced violence
- Phone hours
- Mon–Thu 08:00–20:00; Fri 08:00–15:00, local time
- Language
- Language availability not confirmed
- Cost
- Free
Not a 24/7 service. Website chat has separate hours.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026AustriaAT · Support contacts
- Who it is for
- People in difficult life situations
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- Language coverage not specified in the source
- Cost
- Free within Austria
- Who it is for
- Women experiencing violence
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- Check language-specific hours with the provider
- Cost
- Free
Referrals to regional shelters and counselling.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- Men in crisis
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- Interpreted counselling when needed
- Cost
- Free
Initial crisis support; specialist victim representation is not promised.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026SwitzerlandCH · Support contacts
- Who it is for
- People in emotional distress
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- German / French / Italian
- Cost
- Counselling is free; phone charges may apply
Switzerland and Liechtenstein only. English has a separate number.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- People who want to speak English
- Phone hours
- Daily 18:00–23:00, Swiss local time
- Language
- English
- Cost
- Counselling is free; check provider information
Switzerland and Liechtenstein only. Not a 24/7 service.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- People affected by violence and relatives; eligibility as specified by provider
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- Ask the regional service about counselling languages
- Cost
- Free
Switzerland: 142 is victim support, not an emergency number. Austria: 142 is Telefonseelsorge.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026United StatesUS · Support contacts
- Who it is for
- People in emotional distress or a mental health or suicidal crisis
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- English / Spanish
- Cost
- Free
Call or text 988; chat via the official website. United States and territories.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- People experiencing relationship abuse
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- English / Spanish
- Cost
- Free service; text and data charges may apply
Text START to 88788 or use live support on the website. The provider’s AI chat is not human counselling.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026United KingdomUK · Support contacts
- Who it is for
- People needing emotional support
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- English
- Cost
- Free from UK landlines and mobiles
Confidentiality has exceptions when there is serious danger.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- Women experiencing domestic abuse and people supporting them
- Phone hours
- Phone: 24/7
- Language
- Multilingual telephone counselling
- Cost
- Free
England. Live chat has separate hours.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- People affected by domestic or sexual violence and those around them
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- English / Welsh
- Cost
- Free
Wales.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- All genders affected by domestic abuse or forced marriage, and those around them
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- Interpretation available
- Cost
- Cost not separately confirmed
Scotland.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- People aged 18 and over, all genders
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- Additional languages not confirmed
- Cost
- Free
Northern Ireland.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026SpainES · Support contacts
- Who it is for
- People with suicidal thoughts or risk, and their loved ones
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- Telephone interpretation available
- Cost
- Free
Available across Spain. Does not replace necessary treatment.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- Women experiencing violence and those around them
- Phone hours
- Information / immediate psychosocial help: 24/7; legal advice: daily 08:00–22:00
- Language
- Phone in 53 languages, including DE / EN / ES / PT
- Cost
- Free
WhatsApp 600 000 016 (no calls there). Ministry webchat. Immediate danger: 112.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026PortugalPT · Support contacts
- Who it is for
- People with suicidal thoughts, self-harm risk or related crises
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- Portuguese; other languages not confirmed
- Cost
- Free
Professionally staffed support line.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- People affected by domestic violence
- Phone hours
- Phone: 24/7
- Language
- Additional languages not confirmed
- Cost
- Free
Free, confidential text messages to 3060; referrals to local support.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026BrazilBR · Support contacts
- Who it is for
- People needing emotional support
- Phone hours
- Phone: 24/7
- Language
- Portuguese; other languages not confirmed
- Cost
- Free
24/7 refers to the phone service, not all chat or email services.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026- Who it is for
- Women experiencing violence; reports also accepted from others
- Phone hours
- 24/7
- Language
- Additional languages not confirmed
- Cost
- Free
Information, referrals and reports. Not a police emergency number. Immediate violence: 190.
Numbers confirmed: 11 October 2026 · Next review: 11 November 2026Free PDF · EN / DE
A quiet moment.
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All guides are available in English and German. Spanish and Portuguese versions will follow after review.
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